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miko_mido · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 19

LOVE that blinds us all sees nothing but only ourself.
Situation: I have a friend who is seeing someone who already have a lover, how ironic love can be, the tragic pain that it will cost to my friend.
Let us all be in one at heart and help my friend survive this uncanny mysteries of love situation.
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acoustic_developer · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 40

hmmmm..... that's a bit hard... to love someone who is already being loved by someone else... but that's life... you can't force your heart not to love her/him even though he is already in love with someone else... I guess your friend can wait... or must now his boundaries in this kind of relationship he choose...
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miko_mido · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 19

please do bear with us the pain and the suffering that a person can feel, what burden is heavier than this........
Oh love , love love love .
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acoustic_developer · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 40

hey guys we want to hear your opinions to...
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miko_mido · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 19

I guess passing through ones limitation in obtaining ones true love cannot be measured in words, it is measured by ones action. Tolerating pain just for reason of having the one that you really desire.
I guess that is really LOVE.
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nights · Joined: 27 Mar 2007 Posts: 10

yupp. love is not always a two way street.

i've experience being in love with someone who doesn't even know i exist. too bad!

acoustic_developer · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 40

But you also have to know your place... coz if the one you love is already in love with someone then so be it... you don't want to be interfering with their own relationship... I guess you can be happy for them... and still offer friendship to the one you love....
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eureka_seven · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 37 Location: Philippines

Being in that situation is feels like you don't know if your happy or sad!!!. every time your with that person you feel happy but once she's with her true love things get fucked up... damn... Sad

Love plays the cruelest tricks sometimes...

iMnOtanAnGeL · Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 11:24 am Post subject:

just accept the fact that we can't get all the things we wanted to have.

if you really love that person who's already belongs to someone else, just love her/him
without expecting anything in return and must learn to respect the others. and most of all be contented.
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miko_mido · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 19

but knowing that the person you love already has someone, still the feeling deep inside does not erode . WILL YOU still continue. WILL YOU still take the pain.
WILL YOU still take the chance for the only person that you desire.......
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acoustic_developer · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 40

nights · Joined: 27 Mar 2007 Posts: 10

i think one thing you should clear is the reason why this someone who is already with someone allows things like this to happen?

acoustic_developer · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 40

the question here is does he/she knows your feelings for her?
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miko_mido · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 19

eureka_seven · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 37 Location: Philippines

acoustic_developer · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 40

miko_mido · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 19

acoustic_developer · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 40

hmmmm... in my opinion.... your friend will just have to wait... or try to take his/her mind of her... just try... no harm in trying coz the harder you pursue this kind of relationship or whatever you call it... just keeps building the pain up... which sooner or later will get worse...
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eureka_seven · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 37 Location: Philippines

eureka_seven · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 37 Location: Philippines

Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 12:17 pm Post subject:

I partially agree with that... just wait for the one you really want.... and don't waste time trying to eperiment if this relationship will work... just know what you want and wait to it comes... you'll see it's sometimes works... but I'm not 100% sure about this idea... _________________ By asking for the impossible we obtain the best possible.

Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 8:56 am Post subject:

yes... and it's really sad.. .

Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 9:30 am Post subject:

for me i can keep to myself whatever feelings i have for the person most specially if the person i like/love is in a relationship with other guy... better hide it... but i will let the girl feel she's special... ^_^ _________________ "Di lahat ng pink... kikay!"

Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 1:45 pm Post subject:

well it's up to you how you will cope up or deal with that feelings... better hide it or destroy a relationship... letting her feel special doesn't mean you want her for a relationship... just one way of expressing your feelings na rin... >.< _________________ "Di lahat ng pink... kikay!"

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 7:45 am Post subject:

hiding it by means of not courting her... or telling her exactly you love her or you want her for a deeper relationship... did you get my point... hehehe.. _________________ "Di lahat ng pink... kikay!"

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 8:04 am Post subject:

I think what Mr. Zeruel is trying to point here is that you can still express your feelings for her... but not to the point of courting her... coz she already has a special someone...you can still make her special...but not to the point of telling her you love her... hahaha I'm a little confuse too... correct me if I'm wrong.... _________________ By asking for the impossible we obtain the best possible.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 10:58 am Post subject:

Think simple and act careful.........????? how????

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 1:18 pm Post subject:

please correct if I make wrong explanations.. _________________ By asking for the impossible we obtain the best possible.

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